Showing posts with label confessions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label confessions. Show all posts

Sunday, February 11, 2018

a Valentine's Post

This question-answer list has been seen on Facebook, but I decided to do it on my blog instead, in part so any readers I still have know I'm alive. I've been ill and not up for blogging, but I'm climbing out of the fog.

M grudgingly agreed I could do this, so here I go!



1. How long have you been together?
    Friends for 27+ years, together for 13 years, married for 11+ years.

2. Who said "I love you" first?
    He did. 

3. Who is more sensitive?
    I at least appear to be.

4. Where do you eat out most as a couple?
    Straub's Krone!

5. Who's older?
    I am.

6. Where was your first date?
    We don't actually know. After so many years of friendship, there was no clear "first date."

7. Who is more social?
    I am, but he surprises me sometimes.

8. Who is the neat freak?
    Sadly, neither of us.

9. Who is more romantic?
    Both of us? Neither of us?

10. Who wakes earlier?
      Usually he does.

11. Who's funnier?
      He is, and here's the proof.

12. Who has the bigger family?
      I do, both immediate and extended.

13. How long did it take to get serious?
      14 years.
1991 - long before serious
14. Who picks where you go to eat?
      Either of us. 

15. Who is the first one to admit being wrong?
      He is. He says it saves time and avoids arguments.

16. Who wears the pants in the family?
      We both do. I hate skirts. Then again...


The answer to who is wearing pants is all the more interesting
here if you consider the British definition...
17. Who eats more sweets?
      I think I do.

18. Who spends more money?
      He probably does. He also works harder.

19. Who is more sarcastic?
      He is, but I've always given a valiant effort.

20. Who makes more messes?
      He does, but he also cleans up after himself.

21. Who hogs the remote?
      He does, but now and then I get to choose. Those evenings usually go like this...
        me: "Do you know what you're going to watch on TV tonight?"
        M:  "Oh no."

22. The better driver?
      Without question, he is. He also actually likes driving. I do not.

23. Who is smarter?
      Again, he is.

24. Did you go to the same school?
      For 5 months in 1986 I attended his school in Esslingen while I was on an exchange program.

25. Where is the furthest you two have traveled together?
      Wisconsin or Tennessee - whichever is farther from Stuttgart.

26. Who hogs the blanket? 
      Neither of us - in German double beds, each gets his/her own blanket and mattress.

even in hotels!
27. Who does the laundry?
      I do, but he does his own ironing and mending when needed.

28. Who's better with the computer?
      He is. It's his career.

29. Who reads more?
      No contest - I do.

30. Who's the better cook?
      Also no contest - he is, but I've learned a lot from him.
      He's cooking Rouladen for dinner as I sit here typing this...!

preparing Rouladen,
demonstrating mise en place



Now it's your turn! There's still time before Valentine's Day!



Friday, July 3, 2015

Sisterhood of the World Bloggers Award

It is as hot as the flaming bowels of hell here with no end in sight according to wetter.de, and I think I'm slowly losing the will to live. Once the concrete walls of our house finish absorbing the heat, the only place that will be almost tolerable is the cobweb jungle of the basement with the carcasses of forty big formerly furry black spiders I decided not to sweep up earlier. At least the beer is down there.

I've put a ban on hugging - one of my favorite things! - until this heat wave is over, I'm not using the oven, and I'm keeping the Rolladen (rolling shutters) down during daylight hours and living in relative darkness. Since the shutters are down anyway I would just stay naked in the house, but I don't want to sweat on the furniture. I can totally handle a few days of scorching heat, but two weeks or more is a bit much. Thank God the car has air conditioning. I might try driving again.

Meredith from Kaffee und Kuchen (a Stuttgart-based expat blog) nominated me for the Sisterhood of the World Blogger Award last month - thank you, Meredith! I do enjoy these types of posts where I get a closer look at the personalities of the bloggers I like to read. I'm going to take this opportunity to take my mind off the heat by finally responding to the nomination!


For the Sisterhood award fellow bloggers answer questions about their preferences, personalities, and lives, nominate other bloggers, and pose ten new questions.

The rules are:
  1. Thank the blogger(s) who nominated you and share a link to her/his/their blog in your post.
  2. Answer the ten questions you've been sent.
  3. Write ten questions of your own.
  4. Spread the love and nominate up to ten bloggers!
Here are the ten questions Meredith sent, along with my answers:

1. What do you mostly blog about?

I mainly write about everyday life in southern Germany. I originally aimed at an American audience and described how life here differs from that in the Midwest of the US. I think that got dull quickly for everyone but my parents and my daughter, who loves Germany almost as much as I do, and now my readers are mainly expats and Germans. I've been told often by Germans that they are surprised how many things I find that are interesting enough to write about that are just normal for them.

2. What is the best city you have travelled to and what are your recommended "must sees" in that city?

I'm finding it more and more difficult to rank things, but I'll say Wien/Vienna. As far as "must sees," it depends on the traveler's interests! I was fascinated by the 10 or so churches my Schwiegermutter and I visited - each one is so different! The Hofburg Palace was a highlight, as well as the Kapuzinergruft with the tomb of Sisi and Kaiser Franz-Josef. An extensive, self-guided walking tour is always a must for me no matter where I go.
Stephansdom, Wien

3. What three items do you always pack on a trip?

A book, both of my cameras, and an umbrella.

4. What is the best meal you've ever had and where did you have it?

Any meal that induces what my husband calls "food noises" could be considered a best, and I've had many of those. Pretty much every meal I've eaten at Straub's Krone right in our tiny little village ranks as the best. At home I'd have to say it's my husband's grilled beef tenderloin. This is a recipe - or rather a technique - handed down from my grandfather, and there's nothing better on the grill.
Cheeks of a calf in cream sauce

Bambi (seriously - fawn) with parsnips and chestnut potatoes

5. Which destination is on your "must see" list? Why?

Scotland - as much of it as possible. I am intrigued by its rich history, the wild beauty of the highlands, the remote life on the islands, its music, and its spirit. We've vacationed in Scotland several times, mainly on the Isle of Mull, but there is much more to see!

6. What's your favorite way to spend a free weekend afternoon?

Napping, I'm afraid (what a waste of time!). Or going for a long walk with M.

7. Whom would you pick to go on a cross-country road trip with you? Why?

My daughter. We are so much alike and have similar desires and habits when we travel. We could care less about the bar scene or night life of a city and prefer to retire early so we can get up and go the next morning. She's willing to walk all day and agrees that you get to know a city best on foot. Neither of us is interested in art museums, and we both like history and learning. She is also very frugal. Neither of us enjoys shopping! I would not enjoy travelling with someone who wants to go into clothing, jewelry, or shoe shops.
mother-daughter trip to Rome, December 2014

8. What are your blogging goals for the coming year?

Oops. We're supposed to have goals? I never thought about it. I guess I would just like to write interesting and fun posts.

9. What's your favorite blog post that you've written? Please share the link!

This question held me up for a while. This one about Fasnet was awfully fun to write, and this advice to my kids on the more serious side.

10. What's a new blogging skill that you've learned recently?

Oh dear. The most recent was probably a year ago when I added a table on a page for my "Frequently Used Terms." I'd like to learn how to create and insert a photo caroussel, but I don't think that's possible within Blogger. 



Now for my questions and nominees!

  1. Would you like to be famous? If so, in what way?
  2. Would you like to know the date of your death? Why or why not?
  3. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
  4. Have you ever heard a false rumor that was spread about you? How did you react?
  5. If you were given €500,000 but could not spend it on yourself, what would you do with the money?
  6. Where in the world do you not want to travel to?
  7. What is your favorite meal to prepare?
  8. What do you fear most?
  9. What would you name as your all-time favorite movie (or book, or both - your choice)?
 10. What is a movie soundtrack that you really, really like?


My nominees, if they so choose to participate, are:

  Around the Wherever
  Speaking Denglish
  Starting over in Stuttgart
  A Different Piece of Sky
  Traveling Hopefully
  World Traveler in Training
  Razorbacks and Bratwurst


Thursday, February 5, 2015

Four Things


I saw this "Four Things" post on a blog  I often read (a Different Piece of Sky - isn't that a lovely title?) and through that writer found several others who did the same thing. They were fun to read, and I thought I'd do one too, especially since I'm in a writer's slump again.

Four Names People Call or Have Called Me

  1. Bethy Boo (my grandpa called me that)
  2. Nervous Nellie (friends)
  3. Betty (only a special select few, because I hate the name)
  4. Mom

Four Movies I Have Watched More Than Once

Goodness gracious - just four?! I'm more likely to re-watch a movie I know I like than watch a new one.
  1. The 13th Warrior
  2. Nirgendwo in Afrika
  3. Dances with Wolves
  4. The Man from Snowy River

Four Jobs I have Had

  1. Counter Person at McDonald's (can I say "Customer Service Professional"?)
  2. Cashier & Assistant in a pharmacy
  3. Customer Service Coordinator at Allied Van Lines
  4. High School English and German Teacher
I'm not working here - but I hired Allied to move my stuff to Germany,
and this was the day they loaded it all up!

Four Books I Recommend

  1. The Prophet, by Kahlil Gibran
  2. Pillars of the Earth, by Ken Follett
  3. Sense and Sensibility, by Jane Austen
  4. The Razor's Edge, by W. Somerset Maugham

Four Places I've Lived

  1. Sheboygan, Wisconsin (USA)
  2. Appleton, Wisconsin
  3. Fond du Lac, Wisconsin
  4. Horb, Germany
Horb am Neckar

Four Places I've Been

  1. Vienna, Austria
  2. Berlin, Germany
  3. Concord, Massachusetts (USA)
  4. Rome, Italy
Rome

Four Places I'd Rather Be

Sorry, this one I really can't do. I am exactly where I want to be.

Four Things I Don't Eat

  1. Beans
  2. Coconut
  3. Nutella (anything with hazelnut flavor)
  4. Snails, oysters, or sushi

Four of My Favorite Foods

  1. Beef tenderloin
  2. Lamb chops
  3. Geschnetzeltes und Rösti
  4. Cheese
    Geschnetzeltes und Rösti

Four TV Shows I Watch

  1. The Big Bang Theory
  2. die Kochprofis
  3. The Mentalist
  4. Any Quiz or Trivia Show - especially German ones where I learn something!

Four Things I'm Looking Forward to This Year

  1. A week on the Isle of Mull and some extra days near Edinburgh
  2. My daughter's college graduation from my alma mater in June
  3. Twelve days with family and friends in Wisconsin in June
  4. Day trips to new towns in Germany

Four Things I'm Always Saying

  1. "Thank you" or "Danke."  (I'm not just being sappy - I say it all the time!)
  2. "Ich liebe Dich."
  3. [In answer to "What are you doing?"] "I'm writing an email to your mother."
  4. "I'm cold."

Four Things I Do Almost Every Day

  1. Nap
  2. Read the newspaper
  3. Read new blog posts by my favorite expat bloggers
  4. Write

What about you? Pick a category and leave your list in the comments, or write your own "Four Things" post!


Thursday, January 15, 2015

Mid-month Confessions

This is a weird time of year. I don't particularly like January or February, and March isn't anything to look forward to, either. Christmas is over, the weather is dull, gray, and hopeless, there are too many months between now and the end of the school year, and my feet are always cold which makes me as discontented as a cat stuck out in the rain. I am sure I will never understand Fasching/Fasnet, but I should be able to get others' enthusiasm for the tomfoolery. At least it livens up the drabness of winter.

In an attempt to get back my sense of humor, I thought I'd offer a few confessions.

In the last few days or weeks, I may or may not have...

  •  ...published a blog post I really liked about my favorite island, only to discover while I was looking for something else in my archives that I had already published a post about the island in October. No wonder I couldn't find the draft I'd thought I'd written.

  • ...regifted (to the Sternsinger and my students) some of the candy from M's and my Adventskalender because we couldn't eat that much chocolate every day!

  • ...let loose an audible anguished groan upon noticing the sixth mistake/typo in 12 pages of what appears to be a printed copy of the E-book version of an American classic I've been longing to read, which I ordered from Amazon. Good my lord, who types these things?!?

  •  ...fished a piece of tin foil out of the gelber Sack (I'd only put it in there 2-3 minutes before) to reuse on the leftovers headed into the refrigerator. If you were a Swabian, you'd understand.

  •  ...written two scathing emails to two different people on the same day and then jetisoned them both because some people are just too stupid to bother with.

  •  ...spent €101 on home decorations (2 pillow covers, 1 small table cloth, and 6 placemats) because they had owls on them and I love owls. I was disappointed in the quality of what arrived. And I had to spend €10 on pillows to go into the pillow covers.

  •  ...apologized to M for spending €111 on useless, cheap (but kind of cute) owl crap in the same month that he made an additional house payment.

  •  ...left a stove burner on level 4 all night after boiling potatoes at 22:00 for the next day's Bratkartoffeln. M found a nice warm kitchen when he went for his coffee the next morning.

  •  ...celebrated silently because I have a 3-week break from one of my volunteer jobs. I want to like the work but don't.

  • ...had a conversation with M about the gender of the German word for orgasm. Masculine, feminine, or neuter: one guess, folks.

  •  ...lost this entire blog post after it was nearly finished because I had unplugged the network cable to sit in the living room to write, got an error message when I tried to add a photo that wouldn't go away even after I plugged in again, and hit the big red X because I was too proud to ask M to fix my problem for me.

  •  ...apologized to M for bitching about losing my blog post when I could have asked him for help before hitting the big red X.

  •  ...eaten an entire package of licorice I brought back from the States. Apparently I miss licorice. And now it's gone.

  • ...thrown a semi-major hissy fit because my Nexus required a system update and now everything looks different. I HATE change!!!
Owl in the center isn't new - he traveled in my suitcase from the U.S.
when I moved here.
Well hell, I have to admit, this was fun!!


Ok, fellow bloggers and dear readers - what are your mid-month (or end-month...whatever) confessions?!? Let's liven up this dull season.